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Thursday, 23 October 2014
Sure way to Real love
When you make a commitment to someone, you want it to last. While looking good and providing financial security are key elements to a successful relationship, making memories and sharing are just as important.
1. Leave the drama at the door. Make your mate feel comfortable around you. And if you do fuss, do so fairly. Don’t call him/her names. Don’t threaten him/her. Listen. Don’t interrupt. If you are too upset to be calm and cool, go to another part of the house until you can calm down.
2. Work on being compassionate, not judgmental. When you judge someone, you build a wall. Slow your roll and think about what you are going to say – in other words, don’t react… respond. Instead of saying, “You moron, why didn’t you call ahead first to make sure they had the part?” Try a response like this: “Honey, next time, maybe it would be best if we called ahead first.”
3. Separate your emotions from the facts. When feelings get involved in a discussion, it becomes elevated because we are likely to bring in all the luggage from the past. Look at the facts and you may see things clearer and may even see your partner’s side of the story.
4. Remember that expression, “When you assume you make an assout of u and me?” Oh so true! Don’t make assumptions. Ask questions and clarify what really went down or was said.
5. Time is of the essence. You absolutely have to make time for your mate. That’s where the concept of “date night” came from for couples that have been in long-term relationships. You don’t want to get into a rut where you don’t do the things that attracted you two in the first place. Explore things together, and be open to doing things that he/she likes. It shows that other person that you do care. One week go do something he/she likes and the next week, it’s your choice.
6. Express yourself. It’s important to show your partner that you care, but you also have to say it. Say, “I’m sorry you had a bad day,” not, “What the hell is wrong with you?” Go with Stevie Wonder and just call to say, “I love you.”
7. Observe. Be aware. And use those observations to be romantic. For example, if you are sitting and watching TV and a commercial comes on for the new B.o.B. CD and your man leans forward like he’s interested, surprise him by stopping on the way home and picking up a copy for him.
1. Leave the drama at the door. Make your mate feel comfortable around you. And if you do fuss, do so fairly. Don’t call him/her names. Don’t threaten him/her. Listen. Don’t interrupt. If you are too upset to be calm and cool, go to another part of the house until you can calm down.
2. Work on being compassionate, not judgmental. When you judge someone, you build a wall. Slow your roll and think about what you are going to say – in other words, don’t react… respond. Instead of saying, “You moron, why didn’t you call ahead first to make sure they had the part?” Try a response like this: “Honey, next time, maybe it would be best if we called ahead first.”
3. Separate your emotions from the facts. When feelings get involved in a discussion, it becomes elevated because we are likely to bring in all the luggage from the past. Look at the facts and you may see things clearer and may even see your partner’s side of the story.
4. Remember that expression, “When you assume you make an assout of u and me?” Oh so true! Don’t make assumptions. Ask questions and clarify what really went down or was said.
5. Time is of the essence. You absolutely have to make time for your mate. That’s where the concept of “date night” came from for couples that have been in long-term relationships. You don’t want to get into a rut where you don’t do the things that attracted you two in the first place. Explore things together, and be open to doing things that he/she likes. It shows that other person that you do care. One week go do something he/she likes and the next week, it’s your choice.
6. Express yourself. It’s important to show your partner that you care, but you also have to say it. Say, “I’m sorry you had a bad day,” not, “What the hell is wrong with you?” Go with Stevie Wonder and just call to say, “I love you.”
7. Observe. Be aware. And use those observations to be romantic. For example, if you are sitting and watching TV and a commercial comes on for the new B.o.B. CD and your man leans forward like he’s interested, surprise him by stopping on the way home and picking up a copy for him.
Little things can go a long way. Make an effort to express your love and desire on a regular basis and you can cultivate a loving relationship that will last a lifetime.
Ways to Quite depending on someone.
For most people, the act of being totally dependent on others for various reasons – emotional, physical, financial… is a situation they don’t like being in. It can be a very frustrating when you can’t make a decision or achieve some goals without needing someone’s support. Almost everyone, man or woman, should have some level of independence and today, I’d like to share some tips on how we can achieve that.
1. DO THINGS BY YOURSELF
One of the ways to stop being dependent on others is to start doing things by yourself. Don’t always accept help from others. If it’s something really hard or really serious, and you’ve tried to fix it yourself and can’t, get help. If it’s something easy and you know you can do it, do it. Don’t rely on others to do the tasks you can do. You don’t even have to start with the big things. You can start small and gradually build up to more risk things, getting out of your comfort zone.
2. START AND FINISH YOUR TASKS
If you’re constantly asking a friend or family member to start or finish something you did, you should do it yourself so you don’t become dependent on them to always do your personal tasks. It’s okay to ask for help sometimes, just not all the time. Plus, you get the glory and satisfaction of doing the task by yourself without any help!
3. LIST YOUR POSITIVE PERSONALITY TRAITS
Many times when a person is dependent upon others, it is because they don’t realize how great they actually are. They may ride on someone else’s confidence since they don’t have any of their own. If this is you, realize you have every right to be confident in who you are. List all of the great things about you. Looking at your positive personality traits written down in black and white can give you confidence.
4. SPEND WISELY
If the situation is about money, think more carefully about how you shop. This will give you the extra money for emergencies, activities, and keep you from asking people to borrow money. But if it’s something that affects your or another persons health, or another serious situation, it’s fine to ask for the money to help you out. Other than that, you should be able to do this with your own money.
5. TAKE SMALL STEPS
If you need to grow more independent a little at a time, that is okay. Take small steps if you need to. With time, you’d realize that you can actually achieve a lot of things on your own. These little steps will make you stronger and eventually you will be strong enough to take the big steps.
Sunday, 12 October 2014
Omega XD releases Hitz singles. Download
Download Omega XD Hitz.
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TURN IT UP LOUDER!!!
#NewMusic
That Will Boost Your Dancing Mood!!!
http://www.reverbnation.com/OmegaXD
http://www.hulkshare.com/OmegaXD
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